http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tHFhCajoiCg <—- I made it public now.
And yes, you’re right. Those pins are missing from the Arduino BT. I’ve tried every which way possible to give power to the shield both through the header pins that go into the shield and Arduino and I’ve also tried directly giving power to the Arduino with the shield attached. Nothing has turned on the Red LED. Do you think I just have a defective shield?